Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Who Moved My House?

BlogAway family: you are in for a real treat this week! JazznJenna has submitted a guest post for our reading pleasure. Not only is this a great topic, but it's a cool way to get to know each other better. Would you like to write a guest post? Email me!

Take it away Jenna!

I confess, I've yet to read the book "Who Moved My Cheese", although it is on my long want-to-read list.  Nevertheless, I thought that would be a good idea for my post title, as I share with you some of the reasons I'm a fan of MOVING.  No, not moving one's body parts around in an aerobic manner--although that's a great thing to do 5-6 times a week, or moving from one's assigned seat at the dinner table to another--a faux pas in our house...rather, I'm talking about moving out of one house and into another, and particularly when those two houses are in different cities, states, or countries.



I have lived in 8 different states, 1 district, and 1 country other than the U.S.A.  My father was in the navy while I was growing up, and that accounts for over half of the states that I lived in.  The rest of my moves were attributed to my marrying an eternal student who started his college career in 1993, and is currently still a student (I feel it's okay to lovingly use that term of endearment "eternal student" for my dear hubby until he actually receives his doctoral degree, sometime in 2012 if all goes well!).  I must not neglect to mention however that he is now a student who has full-time employment (hallelujah!), hence our most recent move to Pennsylvania. 


After all of my moving, I have learned to love it!  I say "learned to love it" because of course it wasn't always easy.  The most difficult move for me emotionally was probably when I was in the middle of 6th grade.  I thought my life was over, and was sure I'd never be able to make new friends.  But sure enough, I have been able to make new friends everywhere I've lived, and I can't imagine missing out on all of the amazing and wonderful people that have made my life so rich. 


And even though it's more the people and not the places that have taken permanent residence in my heart, I'd love to share with you what I remember and love most about each of the places that I've lived.


I was born in Virginia.  I can't claim any memories of VA because we moved from there when I was 2 months old.  From there, I believe we moved into my grandparents' home in Utah for awhile, which I also don't remember (I remember the house from my older childhood memories, but don't remember living there).  Then we lived in Washington D.C. for a few years, where 2 of my 5 siblings were born (I'm the 2nd oldest).  But the first home I really remember was in South Carolina.



South Carolina was palm trees, swimming at the beach and enjoying all of the tiny sea creatures there, beautiful brick homes, rain that brings frogs all over the road, and missing my dad while he was away on a navy ship for several weeks.  Collecting locust shells from the trees and sticking them all over our shirts.  Pine needles all over our front yard, and prickly "gum balls" all over our back yard. My last 2 siblings were born in South Carolina.  We lived there for 5 years, and moved on to our next state of California when I was 10.



Southern California for me meant hot summers, orange trees and lemon trees and lots of other kinds of yummy trees right on our property, avocados that were free because they had dropped on the side of the road, green rolling hills, and having lots of bilingual friends.  I began learning Spanish at this young age and even got to star as "La Caperucita Roja" (Little Red Riding Hood) in my school play in 3rd grade.  I also started my singing career in 3rd grade, when I sang "Over the Rainbow" as my first solo in front of the whole school.  Hooray for encouraging music teachers!  This is the town where I started to gain a little independence as an older child, and I loved being allowed to walk into town with my girlfriend to use my spending money at Pizza Hut and the Hello Kitty store.



In the middle of my 6th grade year, as I mentioned, we moved to Nevada, which I didn't actually learn to pronounce properly until we got there (you'd think that Californians would know that the "va" in Nevada rhymes with "hat", and not "hot").  Our town was a farmland in the middle of the desert, and is one of my favorite landscapes in the world.  I love the rolling tumbleweeds, the sandy light beige dirt we all had for front yards, and best of all, being able to see for miles.  None of those tall leafy things to obscure our view : ).  With my town being partly a dairy farming community, the smell of cows always makes me feel at home (as do Wrangler jeans and bales of hay).  I was blessed to live there long enough to graduate from high school, so I did a lot of growing up there.  High school in Nevada for me was a happy time.  It meant becoming a musician as I developed my singing voice, played a few different instruments, and furthered my Spanish-speaking skills.  I did a little dating but mostly in groups, and I had the best group of friends (many of them from church, most of them from band and choir), that anyone could ever ask for.  Nevada also gave me my first jobs, babysitting (which I loved), and working at Burger King (good times).

From Nevada, I headed off to college at BYU in Utah, but I'll save those stories and my other adult living-location adventure stories for the next post. 


I'll finish up with the top 5 reasons a child can love moving:


1.  Once the house is all packed up and cleaned out, it's really fun to run around and act crazy in the empty rooms.
2.  If there are any big giant furniture boxes, maybe Mom & Dad will let you use them to build forts later.
3.  Pen pals.  Who doesn't enjoy getting long-distance love in the mail?  I have one childhood friend that I've stayed in touch with for going on 30 years.  Whether they be hand-written or e-mailed, getting letters from friends is the best.
 4. Being the new kid in school can make you the cool kid that everyone wants to get to know.  And after the novelty rubs off, at least you can still wow your friends with stories of this mysterious unknown land that they've never experienced.
 5.  Okay, the truth is, children don't really love moving.  But in hind sight, it's awesome!  I LOVE that I got to experience all of those different places in my growing up years. 

Thanks Jenna! That was very moving.  :)  I'm stuck on the part about the free avocados. Heaven!!!

If you want to visit Jenna's blog, click here. She also has a business blog since she's a Stampin' Up! demonstrator. Click here for that one. 

So tell me guys: How many times have you moved? And, if you had to move right now, where would you want to move to?  

13 comments:

Nicole Jessop said...

I've lived in a couple states- I was born in Florida and my parents decided to move back to Montana when I was two. There we were raised. I moved to Idaho for college at BYU-I. I came to Utah for my student teaching and getting married and here I am still! I would move back to Montana today if I could

Lori Folkman said...

I get to answer a question on my own blog! I'm so excited! Most of my moving has been done within the state of Montana. I've lived in four different cities across the state (hey, it is a big state!)and I've lived in two different cities in Utah. I'm not nearly as adventuresome as Jenna!

If I had to move somewhere, I would pick Seattle, but I would much rather stay right here!

Kats Kradle said...

How fun! Our last move was my 29th in 28 years!!! I have lived in Montana, Arizona, Colorado, Montana again, Washington, Oregon, Idaho, Montana again, and Idaho again!!!! It's fun, hard work, heart breaking sometimes, and a huge growing experience, I love that I can say I have each of my kid's in different states!!! Thanks Lori for this post!

Sally said...

I've moved 29 times, I think, and have lived in the following states (some of them multiple times): WA, NM, OH, KS, HI, VA, CA, MT, NV, CO, UT, AZ. I really don't want to move again. Brigham jokes that I told him I'd follow him anywhere, as long as we don't move out of this house! Where I'd like to visit, now that's a different story...

Team C said...

We have lived in Las Vegas, Georgia, and Utah. I would love to move back to the South, but only if my whole extended family could move with me. It's hard not to be close. 10 hours travel is a lot better than 3 days!

Anonymous said...

Yuck that was no fun to think about..... I think I've got 15 times. Mostly around kalispell and bigfork. Although I did move to Oklahoma for 5 months once just to show how stupid I was at the time!! :)
But I am much more stable now.... we have been here for almost 6 years:) o and this is me... Brandi Simpson

Bakerfam said...

this is a fun one. I am a native Montanan, moved after graduation to Utah, back to MT for two years ant then back to UT for the last ten years. I am not as adventurous as ya'll by any means because I would like to move to the country with lots of land and NO people. at least not for a few dozen acres. I have moved about a dozen times sence being married and am moving again in March. Wish me luck. The more I think about it the better it is because I can pull stuff out of storage. Yeah!

Lori Folkman said...

Nicole: You've been in all the right places at the right time! :)

Lori: oh wait, I guess I don't need to talk to myself. I do enough of that already anyhow.

Kat's Kradle: I wish you would have stopped with your 28th move!

Sally: you are twinners with Kat's Kradle. That is crazy!!!I'm glad you've finally settled in.

Team C: I never knew that you lived in Georgia! (Bilfs should know these things about each other.) I should have noticed that you're peachy keen.

Brandi: Welcome to the blog! Yes, you belong in BF. Grocery shopping wouldn't be the same without seeing your cute face!

Bakerfam: I'm happy that you get to move again. We have a storage unit that was supposed to be temporary, but it's been 9 years! I don't even know what's in there!

Devree said...

Yay for saying Nevada right!!!! No? Just me? Whatever. I've moved twice but all of them were within an hour of each other. I lived in two different houses in Fernley and where I live now in Dayton. If I were to move I'd want to go to Idaho because that's where I'm going to college and it means I am done with high school!

PaulaShawn said...

Is Lori going to be the random winner this week? Hope you are, you deserve something great for giving me something to do on Tues. evenings.

I think I moved 10 times in the 1st 10 years or so of marriage, but I've stayed put for almost 8 now. I could really use the deep cleansing that comes from moving!

Too bad our housing market fell like people's adoration of Apple's tech toys; I don't see a cleansing move anywhere in my future!

Jennifer Lovell said...

I hope Lori wins, too!

It's been fun to see what a variety of moving histories everyone has. Thanks for reading my post, everyone!

bigskyboys said...

I believe I've got 14 moves, all but two were after I got married. If I had to move right now, I must say it would have to be Hawaii. No ski pass this winter so I might as well be laying on a beach.

Lori Folkman said...

Devree: I'll say yay! to Nevada just because you live there! (And also those two gals I'm related to!) But the question is: how do YOU say Nevada?

Paulashawn: I thought you hired a housekeeper. If not maybe I can send mine over to help. Ha!

JazznJenna: I think others would cry foul!

bigskyboys: Don't even mention Hawaii. I just watched two episodes of House Hunters--both in Hawaii. It was like pouring salt-water on my dry, cracked winter skin.